I would like to give a big cheer today for all the single moms out there. Raising kids is an adventure, but raising kids on your own is a completely different life altogether! I experienced a hubby-free three day extravaganza this week and though we survived (just barely) it gave me a fresh insight on what this child-rearing thing is all about.
I filled my days with activities: playgroup, playdates, long walks, toddler yoga class and an invite for dinner at my lovely sisters (thank you!!). All the activities and running around made the days fly by, and in no time Daddy was back home and life fell back into its normal routine. First, however, I fell into bed and only after a good night's sleep did we really all feel back to normal.
These three days got me thinking about how I manage to stay organized (most of the time) and how our daily/weekly/monthly routines and schedules help us to keep things running around here. Here are my top five organizational tips that, though not foolproof, certainly help me along.
1) Meal Planning
Every Sunday evening, or Monday mornings (when I haven't had the energy or desire the night before) I take out my binder and cookbooks and plan out my meals and grocery list for the week. This time-saving tip has truly reduced those witching-hour stress levels, when everyone's hungry, there's "nothing" in the fridge/freezer/pantry to cook with and there's certainly no desire to start planning something. Instead, I always know what we'll be eating for dinner, and because I always have all the ingredients I can easily switch my plan for one night to another night if, for some reason, time is running short or I just feel like cooking what was planned for Thursday on Tuesday instead.
I think the best part about this plan is that it has really inspired us to eat well. We eat a variety of foods (I'm not whipping up a quick and easy pasta dish say two or three times per week) and I try to attempt a new recipe from one of my many well-loved cookbooks at least once a week. I shop once a week (most of the time) and I only buy what is necessary based on the plan. This helps us keep on budget and our food waste is almost nil.
I have even extended this meal plan (it started out as a "supper list") to lunches and now I rarely stand staring at the open fridge hungry yet uninspired by another cheese sandwich.
2) 5-Minute Tidy
Every night, just before winding down for the evening, I take five minutes to do a general sweep of the house. It is at this time that I do a final clearing away of clutter, picking up of toys, straightening out of shoes at the front door (you get the idea) for the day. It allows me to go to bed knowing that things are in order and I can wake up in the morning feeling ready for the day ahead.
3) Labels, Baskets, Containers, Oh My!
I can't tell you how many baskets, small containers, trays and bowls that I have around the house to "catch" everything from my make-up to mail to out-of-season clothes to just about anything and everything. Some are labeled for specific items, others are not but I know that unless I contain my things in something they tend to spread out, quickly and easily!!
I try to find pretty and unique containers and am always on the hunt for more. Though I do like the look of an organized area with matching containers, I admit that I am not quite there yet and so have opted for a some-matching/some-mismatched organizational system. Some days it is more organized chaos than others, but I'm working on it!
4) My Five-Things-a-Day Plan
On a day-to-day basis I find it hard to stay motivated and so I have devised a little plan that I use to try to accomplish five things a day. In my case, the "five things a day rule" is generally applied to housework type things as I can easily find one hundred other things to do in which to fill my time. Alas, the housework must get done and so I set a plan out in my head for the day to accomplish five things around the house. On good days this might include washing the two bathrooms, 3 loads of laundry (washed, hung to dry, and/or folded), dusting the main floor, taking out the garbage and changing the sheets on the beds. Slower days might find me making a mental list like: water the plants, sweep the floor, wash fingerprints off the mirrors, dust, brush the cat.
Regardless of what is on the list I know that by the end of the day I have accomplished at least five things. It is not a rule that is set in stone, and believe me there are plenty of days when I have barely accomplished one thing on my list (if the list was made at all!). I have found though that it is on those days that my "five things a day rule" comes in the most handy because I know that I simply have to wake up the next morning and get back on track.
5) No Pressure
Finally, in order to stay organized our philosophy at home is that there is NO PRESSURE. If we're falling behind or too tired we know that we simply just need to look around and realize that life is pretty good. This philosophy has reduced the nagging, reminding and "you said you were going to do it..." type of conversations. We're not perfect, nor are we perfectly organized but we're working on it and getting better - most of the time!
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